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The Psychology of Overeating and Undereating: Understanding Our Relationship With Food
Food is meant to nourish us both physically and emotionally. Yet for many people, eating becomes tangled with stress, anxiety, trauma, guilt, or control. As a Sydney counsellor working with anxiety, depression and trauma, I often see how overeating and undereating are not about willpower, but about what’s happening beneath the surface. Our eating patterns are deeply connected to our nervous system, emotions, and life experiences. Understanding this connection is the first ste
Pamela Varas
Feb 13 min read


Small Daily Rituals That Help Manage Anxiety and Depression
A Counsellor’s Guide for Women in Australia Anxiety and depression are more common than many women realise and many people experience this. In Australia, over 1 in 5 adults experience a mental health condition each year, with anxiety disorders affecting around 17% of the population and women more likely than men to experience both anxiety and depression. Life pressures, caregiving roles, work stress, trauma, and emotional load can quietly build until coping feels exhausting.
Pamela Varas
Jan 223 min read


Finding Peace and Calm Into 2026: A Guide to Reducing Anxiety and Depression
As we move into 2026, many of us are seeking more than just short‑lived happiness — we’re looking for peace, stability, and inner calm . For people dealing with anxiety, depression, or the long‑standing effects of trauma , everyday life can feel heavy, exhausting, and overwhelming. The good news? Healing and relief are possible , especially when approached gently and with support. Before exploring ways to build calm, it helps to understand how common these experiences actual
Pamela Varas
Jan 13 min read


10 Ways to Manage Festive Season Stress
The festive season is often framed as a time of joy and connection, yet for many people it can stir a mix of excitement, pressure, exhaustion, and emotional sensitivity. You might be juggling family commitments, financial strain, social events, or memories and emotions linked to past trauma. For some, symptoms of anxiety and depression also tend to feel more present at this time of year. In Australia, one in three people report heightened stress during the holidays, and many
Pamela Varas
Dec 7, 20254 min read
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